Texas is Revising its Sex Education Standards, but They’ll Likely Remain Silent on LGBTQ Issues

Schools are not required to teach sexual education, but those that do must stress abstinence as the preferred choice for unmarried young people and spend more time on it than any other sexual behavior. Parents can opt their children out of any lesson they want.

Dee Lepine, a 17-year-old senior at Timber Creek High School in Keller ISD, remembers eighth grade health teachers showing students pictures of people with sexually transmitted diseases and telling them not to have sex. That was the last health class Lepine, who is nonbinary and uses gender-neutral pronouns, took. There was no mention in the class of sexual orientation or gender identity.

“I think just knowing that having attractions when you’re a teenager is normal and you shouldn’t scare kids with scary images,” Lepine said. “It’s really important that they don’t feel like, you know, a freak, because everyone deals with it.”

Lepine remembers learning the details of sex education from the media and friends, who were similarly uneducated and confused.

Sandlin can clearly remember one of the most uncomfortable assignments he received in a public school sexual education class. Each eighth grade student was given a cup with liquid and told to pour it back and forth among other students’ cups.

“At the end of it, they put drops in all of our cups. If your cup turned purple, you had a [sexually transmitted infection],” said Sandlin. “I just remember it being awkward. I was like, are they really trying to get us to simulate sex?”

And most important, the educator at the front of the classroom didn’t include very many lessons that would apply to LGBTQ teens. Sandlin sat in the class with a few friends taking notice of the gaps in the lessons, like the statement that all sex risks pregnancy, which is untrue for many queer people.

In high school, whenever Sandlin realized a class had a substitute teacher, he would run to the front of the room to explain his chosen name and pronouns, which differ from the name and gender he was given at birth. Some teachers made a point of ignoring his requests — an indication, he believes, that comprehensive health education classes would be just as useful for those outside of the queer community.

“Pretty much every queer person I know has experienced some level of bullying or just plain ignorance,” he said. “One time, I had a teacher straight up say, ‘I’m not going to call you that.'” As he’s gotten more confident, Sandlin has reported such incidents to counselors, but said it’s scary to go up against a teacher.

The State Board of Education debated the importance of adding gender identity and sexual orientation into the standards in June, and a few Republicans suggested strengthening the lessons around bullying, making it clear that students know that they should respect everyone. But they largely opposed making direct references to LGBTQ students.

“If we start delineating things, we need to go back and make sure we include everybody else,” said Ken Mercer, a San Antonio Republican on the board.

“If we can save a life because we include this and we allow these students to find that there is no shame in their gender identity, isn’t it worth it to you? It’s worth it to me,” said Ruben Cortez, a Brownsville Democrat on the board. “Hearing and knowing of teens that have [killed themselves] … because of some of the things they deal with, if we in Texas have the opportunity to correct some of this and save one life, I think it’s worth it.”

Georgina Pérez, an El Paso Democrat on the board, said including LGBTQ students in the health standards would parallel work the board has already done creating standards for Mexican American and African American studies courses over the last couple of years. “LGBTQI is an identity, an identity that’s not reflected in any of our curriculum,” she said.

“Racism is a lot bigger problem than the sexual thing as far as people being picked on for different things,” responded Pat Hardy, a Fort Worth Republican on the board.

The state sets minimum standards for what should be taught, but districts are allowed to include additional topics they feel would benefit their students. Some districts, including Austin ISD and Fort Worth ISD, have adjusted their own health and sex education policies to include lessons on gender identity and sexual orientation.

Conservative groups such as Texas Values have headed the fight against these policies, considering them pro-LGBT “indoctrination” and urging parents to opt their children out of sexuality courses. Left-leaning advocacy groups such as Texas Freedom Network, Planned Parenthood and the Texas Campaign to Prevent Teen Pregnancy have pushed in the other direction.

Sock Trimarco, who is “queer in most senses of the word” and uses gender-neutral pronouns, has taken sex ed workshops through Planned Parenthood after learning abstinence-only sex education in the online public school Texas Connections Academy.

The 17-year-old shies away from coming out as transgender and nonbinary in school or out in the world, worried about people “pushing back or being upset” or even resorting to violence. “I have to think in my head and say, ‘Should I introduce myself as my deadname, or should I introduce myself as my name?'” Trimarco said, referring to their previous name.

Sex education that includes LGBTQ students benefits everyone, they said. “To teach people not only that it’s OK to be you, but it’s also OK for other people to be queer.”

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This article appeared in The Texas Tribune at texastribune.org/2020/09/08/texas-state-board-education-sex-ed.